January 28, 2010

TTAT ~ Hanging In There...

"Got teens? You lucky dogs. 

Spend time with them; enjoy them; listen to them; and love them. 

They are the most incredible people, these emerging adults,

and they can become the best friends you'll ever have."

~Diana Waring, Reaping the Harvest. The Bounty of Abundant-Life Homeschooling~



I'm feeling pretty sick (flu bug) today, so this will be short and sweet!  I just want to commend my teens for their perseverance this week.  Nathan is coming off of this virus, and I now know how he's been feeling for the last week and a half!  Crummy!  But he has kept completely up with his school work; since the worst of this, for him, happened over a 3 day weekend (PTL!!!), he didn't skip any of his classes at the community college, even though he was sick.  He took his Dayquil caplets and we headed out!

 

The beginning of this school year was a shock to both of the guys, since it is a VERY heavy (academically) year.  The first semester was one of constant falling-behind and discouragement.  But they've both "picked up the pace" of thier studies, and have found a "rhythm," I guess you could call it. 

 

And I'm very, very proud of them!  It is still a hard year...but they are past the halfway point now.  Lord willing, it'll be all downhill from here!

 

And I want to commend Bryan in advance for what he's going to do today...we have a 10 degrees below zero wind chill today, it is BRUTAL outside, and he'll be going to Kline Creek Farm this afternoon to harvest more ice from the lake!  And this is telling...he's EXCITED about it!!!  I just pray that none of the ewes lamb today...poor little things that are born in this weather!  (Yes, there are warming lights in the barn for them...we break the "1890's living" rules in this case!)

Have a blessed week, and please say "hello" while you're here!



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January 26, 2010

A Very Special Day...

We spoke our vows...



and began our life together...


On the way...

 ...to the celebration time!

 And then the real adventure began...



Today is a special day...

 






January 23, 2010

GiveAway Contest #1!



Welcome to "Plans4You," and

Welcome to my First GiveAway Contest! 


This is the first of several giveaways I'll be doing to help get us through the winter!  Nothing like a good DVD to snuggle the family up on a couch, and there's nothing like an entertaining and edifying DVD from Franklin Springs Family Media (FSFM) to help touch every heart in your family! 


GiveAway #1 is FSFM's "Nathan Clark George ~ Pull Up A Chair." 

Here's a sneak-peek:




This contest begins on Saturday, January 23rd,

and ends on Saturday, February 6th at 11:59pm CST. 



How Do I Enter The Contest?
Just do these 2 things:


  1. You need to place my contest graphic, linked to my blog (I provide html code at the end), at the top of your blog, either as a "Sticky Post" or near the top of your sidebar.  Keep it there from the time you enter until the end of the contest.  You get one entry when you put it up, and another entry for every additional 4 days the graphic remains on your blog! 




  2. Leave a comment below, letting me know that you've entered, so I can check your site and get your name in the contest (be sure you've got all the graphics posted and linked)!!!  Be sure to provide me with your first name, your blog's URL, and your email address so I can contact you if you are the winner!  If there is a "contact me" link on your blog, I can use that, but you must let me know that's what you prefer.  Don't forget to leave your URL! 




  3. I will post the winner here on my blog on Sunday, February 7th, AND I will also send an email.  You will have 48 hours to contact me and verify your shipping address.  If I don't get a response within 48 hours, I will draw a new winner's name. 

IMPORTANT NOTES:


  • I am NOT responsible if you don't provide me with a functioning way to contact you!   I'll do my best, but you must respond within 48 hours if you're contacted.  NO exceptions. 



  • I am NOT responsible if you aren't able to post graphics to your website.  I wish I could help with technical problems, but I cannot.  



  • I AM responsible for keeping careful track of your entries, and I promise I will do so!  The drawing of the winner's name will be entirely at random.  You do get more chances to win by posting my graphic early in this contest! 


Here is the html code for my contest graphic.  It includes the code which links the graphic to my blog...just highlight all of it, copy it, then paste it into your blog as instructed in #1 and #2.  REALLY IMPORTANT DETAIL: Remove all of the asterisks * that I've inserted into the code!  It won't work if you leave them in there!



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Once you are all set up, come back and leave me a comment...and let the fun begin!!!  I'm so glad you're here...PLEASE introduce yourself, and enjoy your time here at "Plans4You."



God Bless,

~Lori


January 22, 2010

WWU ~ A Week Filled With Nathan Clark George Music!

 

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Happy Friday!  I am sooooo glad it is the END of the week.  It's been one of ups and downs.  Here's a peek:



Foreign LanguageNathan is back in the swing of his German course at the college.  He really enjoys this one!  I think by the end of the semester, he'll have enough vocabulary built up and enough understanding of the way the language "works" that he'll be able to have a little conversation!  That will be fun.  He attended "Stammtisch" (conversation table) on Thursday--this is just anyone who wants to can meet over lunch at the college cafeteria with the Professor; they play card and board games, and try to do it while speaking as much German as they know.  It's open to all of the German classes that this particular professor teaches, so some of the students are in advanced levels.  It's been really good for Nathan, and he enjoys it a lot.  He also gets extra credit points, one every time he goes.  It's a nice little "hedge" in case, for some reason, he blows a quiz or test!  The professor seems to really enjoy the students, and enjoys teaching.  She is very kind!



Bryan got 100% on his last Spanish test!!!  Hooray!  I am so grateful to my friend, Christine, for teaching him.  He is having a blast, and the one-on-one is the best set-up for him. 



Farm WorkBryan worked yesterday (Thursday) at the Farm.  It was "MAN DAY!!!"  No, it wasn't an official designation...just that, because we scheduled him on Thursday instead of the usual Saturday, he was working with all the men instead of the young women who are there supervising on Saturdays.  We're going to try to schedule him with the men as much as possible, even though it makes Thursday afternoons REALLY crazy for me in terms of tons of driving.  Bryan is VERY close to getting his drivers license--thank God!  That will help.



Anyway, at the farm they did something that is heavy, hard work, but totally cool.  He came home tired, but satisfied and HUNGRY as a bear.  This video was made a while ago (Bryan's not in it), but you'll see how they do this:



http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c1zcRe_ilp8



I mailed in a packet of information and letters to Harvest Home Farm for Bryan's search for an apprenticeship.  It's in the Lord's hands, and we are completely trusting Him for the outcome.  I'll keep you all posted...we are feeling that it may be better for Bryan to complete his Associates Degree and his other learning experiences before taking an apprenticeship position.  There are a number of reasons for this, and it's been beautiful the way God has lead us to this place of complete peace about all of this! 



Social Studies: The study of economics continues.  The guys are studying about the 3 main economic models: capitalism, socialism, and communism/marxism.  We will also be looking at what is happening with our own US economy (this is not part of the curriculum, just doing this on our own for future preparedness), and about the gold and silver markets.



Science: Chemistry continues.  We're using Apologia Academy's online class that goes along with the Apologia curriculum.  It's going well, and they're keeping up with it! 



MathAlgebra 2 for Nathan is picking up steam again...he has to take the Unit Test, and then, if he passes with at least an 80% (my requirement), he can move on to the LAST module!!!  His goal is to finish it and then rapid fire through geometry by the end of the summer, so he can get into pre-calculus in the fall.  He's going to have to be a lot more self-disciplined in not wasting time during his day in order to complete this goal! 



Geometry for Bryan is going just fine, PTL!   



English Composition: A college course, so it's going to be dual-credit and will count towards their future "Gen. Ed." requirements for their respective college degrees.  College English classes are dicey, they are often quite liberal, and this one has a required play that they have to see which is not anything that I desire them to see (I've searched and reviewed what it's about...and I'm not too pleased).  We will go as a family, and have already discussed a Scriptural response to the basic premise of the play.  I'm not sure what all the Prof. will ask them to write in response to the veiwing of it, but they know that, while including Scripture in a secular college paper is a risky thing, there are ways that it can be included so as to strengthen the opinion being expressed and to not "beat down" in an offensive way that which is being discussed.  I will never counsel my sons to shy away from standing for their convictions, especially in the educational setting.  I will encourage them, in fact, to state their beliefs and to use the Scriptures, for their is so much wisdom in them, and the world needs to hear them!  It's always hard to go against the grain...but it is often precisely what we need to do, and we will pray that God will go before us...even in an English paper! 



Bible: We have 2 weeks left in our Biblical Survey (also known as the "Kingdom Study").  We are still in the book of Hebrews, and it is fantastic.      





MusicBryan has not been practicing enough between lessons, I think.  So it was a little rough sounding!  I have to remember to get on him a bit about this!  I have seen Nathan "noodling" around at the keyboard, using Bryan's books.  He does not want to take lessons, I've asked.  But he can teach himself all he wants, as far as I'm concerned!  He also pulls out the guitar each week, a few times.  I really wish he would just commit to it.  I really wish I would just commit to it!!!  I would love to play guitar, but I seem to get discouraged easily.  I'll get there.  We got a real  "boost" to the desire for guitar in the mail...more on that below!



Homekeeping/Family I am working on identifying the priorities in my life so I make room for them.  I am going to have to walk away from some stuff...good stuff...but I need to clear out my heart and my head, which have become too cluttered with the stuff of life.  I'm getting it written down to help me really see it.   

 



OK, so I mentioned something we got in the mail that has kind of turned on the musical machine.  I had loaned my dear friend a video concert featuring Nathan Clark George.  We'd loaned it out months ago, and she had asked if she and her sons (the ones my boys like to get together in camofluage clothing and sing hymns with...remember the "Band of Brothers" I posted about a while back?) could keep it, as it was really speaking and ministering to a need in their lives.  Of course they could! 



It was in my mailbox on Tuesday afternoon...a delightful surprise!  Like an "old friend" coming back home.  Of course, we had to play it that evening!  I could see a little spark in Nathan's eyes, as we watched this particular song performed...he told me that I should learn to play the mandolin, and then we could play together!  Oh my...what a challenge!  I have to say, I have NEVER heard a mandolin played like this, and I loved every bit of it!  This is from the Franklin Springs Family Media DVD, "Nathan Clark George: Pull Up A Chair."


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5u8IDFI7y10





So, what did you think of this song? I hope you liked it! If you did, keep checking back here...because in about a week, I'll be announcing my first ever GIVEAWAY!!! Hope you stop by again!


May God Bless you this coming week!  Let me know you were here, and be sure to visit Carol at Three Little Ladies!

 

January 21, 2010

TTAT ~ The "Eye Bounce"

"Got teens? You lucky dogs. 

Spend time with them; enjoy them; listen to them; and love them. 

They are the most incredible people, these emerging adults,

and they can become the best friends you'll ever have."

~Diana Waring, Reaping the Harvest. The Bounty of Abundant-Life Homeschooling~



Now that my sons are each taking classes at the community college (we're doing some dual-credit stuff for high school, fyi), I am out there every day of the school week.  I usually hang out in the coffee shop that is just off the library while they're in class.  It gives me time to blog, and to just sit, observe, and listen to the conversations around me.  Most of the conversations are well-peppered with expletives, typically beginning with the letter "f."  I listen to young men conversing absolutely nothing but personal foolishness.  I listen to young women who clearly have NO idea how much their Father in Heaven loves them and longs for them to turn to Him.  Rather, they turn to boy after boy after boy, offering themselves in the worthless hope that one of them will truly mean it when he tells her he "loves her."  These girls are so young, and yet they're so "done."  They've given away so much of themselves to so many boys who care nothing for them save the temporary pleasures they offer, and now they are hard, hurt, and angry. 



And lost...so lost. 



Bryan is so funny to see in this environment.  In this college filled with, for the most part, bored, directionless, semi-affluent to fully-affluent suburban teens and 20's, he seems to stick out like a sore thumb in a lot of ways!  He walks the halls with eyes straight ahead, feeling very much like an "alien" amidst all of the spiritual darkness around him.  At least it's winter here, so the girls are wearing more clothing...though it still doesn't stop some of them!  (As it gets warmer, it's difficult for the boys to know where to hold their eyes as they go around the buildings, since soooooo many of the young women here practice partial nudity in their manner of dress).  



I am so grateful for their commitment to purity; for the way they've commited to not allowing their eyes to gaze upon that which would destroy that commitment to purity.  Since they were younger, we began practicing something we call "eye bouncing."  It comes from our teaching them that, here in the uber-suburbs, obscenity and pornographic images are often surrounding them (billboards for places like Hooters, sex stores, magazine covers at the grocery store line, etc.).  We've told them that they are not responsible for what their eyes accidentally fall on...but that they are responsible for what their eyes then continue to gaze upon.  So, if they accidentally look up and there's a sensual billboard, for example, they are to have their eyes "bounce right off" of it and look in the other direction.  They have practiced this consistently for many years now, PTL.  It's sometimes funny, we may be at a movie theater, and the previews wil come on.  Something inappropriate will come on the screen, and I'll look over at the boys and there they are, in the theater, with their heads turned away from the screen, staring upward at the ceiling! 



I'm sure other kids around them might think they're wierd.  But I just pray that they will continue this care of protecting their eyes and their hearts, and that it will be a blessing to them in that time when they finally do give their hearts...for the first time...to a Godly young woman in marriage.  If you have teens, or (better still) pre-teens, I invite you to join with us in doing the "eye-bounce," and in encouraging your kids to purity!  All of this reminds me, as a parent, that I need to pray every single day for my sons in this intense battleground.  I'll be praying for your teens, too! 



Have a blessed week, and please say "hello" while you're here!



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January 14, 2010

TTAT ~ Recovery Road

"Got teens? You lucky dogs. 

Spend time with them; enjoy them; listen to them; and love them. 

They are the most incredible people, these emerging adults,

and they can become the best friends you'll ever have."

~Diana Waring, Reaping the Harvest. The Bounty of Abundant-Life Homeschooling~



Well, I am cautiously optimistic that Nathan has made it through this difficult week and has reappeared on the "other side!"  I'm speaking, of course, about having all 4 wisdom teeth out...one week ago today (it's actually Wednesday evening as I'm writing this).  But it's not over until the oral surgeon says it's over, so I'm still praying! 





Both of my sons just bless me so much!  Oh, they're not perfect, any more than I am (they are my kids, afterall!), but I just love their character...Nathan only had one day where he was, well, it wasn't grumpy, more like discouraged, so he just wasn't at his best.  But he really never got crabby.  I don't think I was so nice after I had all my wisdom teeth out!



Bryan has been so helpful this week, doing extra tasks around the house w/o being asked, helping with meals for us while I was pureeing chicken and gravy for Nathan...it really is a great thing to have young adults around! 



We resume classes at the college tomorrow morning. For Nathan, this is "old hat" now. Bryan is going to get his first taste of a very different world out there on Friday morning! I'm glad they'll both be in English Comp. together!

Have a blessed week, and please say "hello" while you're here!



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  • Simply write a positive post about something (or things) that your homeschooling teenager has done which impressed you this week.  Keep it focused on good/encouraging/growth-maturity-related things you've observed about them; lessons they've learned, or that you've learned through them.  

  • Link back to me (Lori @ Plans4You) in your post somewhere, so your readers will know where to go to join Thursday TAT.  If you'd like the link-button to put on your blog and/or at the top of your post, you can get it HERE

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January 13, 2010

Great Stuff for High Schoolers interested in Aerospace Engineering!

Hey there!  I posted this article on HSB's Company Front Porch for my "Homeschooling Through High School" section.  I know not everyone reads there, so I wanted to post it here, too, as it's really great stuff!  Enjoy!



In honor of Amelia Earhart's solo flight across the Pacific (this week's topic for the Front Porch Team articles), I wanted to share something that we have really enjoyed here in our home as we've tried to learn more and more about possible career options related to the things our sons were interested in.  In this case, it would be my youngest son Nathan's interest in design, technology, and the fun of flight simulation. 



What career might this be?  If you guessed Aerospace Engineering, you're right!  Now, I have to admit, I would find it just so much fun to say "yeah, my kid's a rocket scientist!"  Nathan's not so sure about all of that, but a mom can dream, right? 



Anyway, this link will take you to a wonderful "Interview with a NASA Aerospace Engineer," Jill Marlowe.  (Just in case you thought this might only interest the boys, take note...this rocket scientist is a "she!")  I learned a lot about this exciting field of engineering, and I hope you enjoy it, too! 



http://meweb.larc.nasa.gov/meweb/Aerospace_Engineer_Interview.html



We've also discovered a wonderful place on the web called "NASA e-Clips."  From their website comes this description:

NASA eClips(TM) are short, relevant educational video segments, designed for a spectrum of learners. These videos inspire and engage students, helping them see the value of their classroom learning through real world connections. New video segments are produced weekly, exploring recent and relevant applications of science, technology, engineering and mathematics, or STEM topics. The programs are produced for targeted age groups including: grades K-5, 6-8, 9-12 and the general public.

The video segment produced for grades 9-12 is called "Launchpad."  We just love to watch these!  Below are two of our favorites (I provide the URL links beneath the videos, just in case you aren't able to view them here for some reason).  This first one is a wonderful glimpse into just some of the practical problem-solving done by aerospace engineering:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pqVs2G62lJ4



This second video is pure fun and imagination for the budding aerospace engineer!  Just in case you're wondering, Nathan started his now beloved hobby of computer flight simulation by using the free download of Flight Gear.  It takes time to figure out, but if you have a kid like mine, they'll love every confusing minute of it!  Someday, Nathan would love to be able to "play" in something like this:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pOs-LKCPhmo



May God Bless you and your homeschool this week!  And if you know someone who works at Langley, and could arrange a tour for us, let me know!!!

~Lori



Let me know you stopped by today!  Have a blessed day...

January 10, 2010

WWU with Three Little Ladies

 

To join the fun, visit Carol's blog at Three Little Ladies , and link us all to your post!  Be sure to leave a comment here so I can visit your blog, too!

 

It's been a fairly unproductive week for us owing to the removal of Nathan's wisdom teeth on Wednesday afternoon.  He's still recovering, but I see glimmers here and there of the other side of this "hill" that tell me we are at the peak of it, and the "slide down the other side" is about to begin.  I am grateful for that.  This was not as big a deal when I went through it with Bryan last year, as he isn't diabetic.  This time has been more intense for me, as I've had to really be "on" all the time, assessing how Nathan's doing hour by hour.  Again, I think we've crested the wave, and it should start to get easier now, PTL!!!  Do keep us in your prayers just a few more days!



Foreign LanguageGerman class at the commmunity college begins next week.  I think Nathan may have looked over some of his notes and vocab. from last semester's class, but I'm not completely sure.



Bryan had a Spanish class scheduled on Monday at 1pm.  It was the first one back in the new semester.  Monday was an errand day for us, buying all the soft foods we could find for Nathan to have post-op, and then we headed out to the college to buy their textbooks for the Composition class both guys are taking this semester.  While we were at the bookstore, my cell phone rang.  It was my dear friend, Christine...Bryan's Spanish teacher..."where are you?  Is everything alright?"  I am such an idiot sometimes!  I totally blanked out the class...think my nerves were beginning to get to me as I was racing around prepping for Nathan's oral surgery!  So, we missed it.  We'll try again on Monday.



Farm WorkNone this week...I haven't even turned in a schedule for Bryan at Kline Creek yet.  Guess he'll begin at the very end of the month. 



Social StudiesEcon has begun!  The guys seem to like it, so far so good.  We're using the homeschool materials offered by Accelerated Christian Education Ministries  .  I think it will be a good course, yet not as challenging as what they had with Government last semester, which is a gift at this point.  



Nathan is finally getting caught up with his College Plus! Prep assignments (he's completed the logic and rhetoric portion, as well as the critical thinking, and I think he's starting the speed reading and dynamic memory sections next). 



Science:  Online Chemistry lecture was on Tuesday.  Fortunately, there weren't any experiments in this chapter, so other than needing to read the chapter in advance, Nathan isn't missing anything huge.   



MathNo math for Nathan (tough to do Algebra 2 while on Codeine!); Bryan started with our new Harold Jacobs Geometry, for which we purchased the "Ask Dr. Callahan" video CD's to go with it.  I was a little worried about the style of this course, given Bryan's extreme dyslexia.  My gut feelings were correct...it was a disaster for him!  He said, "it's like Saxon, only WORSE!"  So he's doing Videotext Geometry now, and it's going GREAT.  PTL!  We'll save the H.J. geometry for Nathan, who has been reading the textbook and saying that he thinks it looks awesome.  It does have a lot of SAT prep problems in it, and great algebra reviews, as well.  I think it'll work well for Nathan's learning style and love of math.  But first, he's gotta finish Algebra 2!!!  Hopefully he can resume it in a few days.  I'm going to wean him off the Codeine pain mends beginning today.    

 

Bible: We continue our Biblical Survey (also known as the "Kingdom Study")  with Cindy Zeigler's materials.  Another thing we did just last night was to watch a DVD from Vision Forum  that we gave to ourselves at Christmas, "The Mysterious Islands."   It's about Darwin and the Galapegos Islands...VERY good, VERY well done!  Here's the trailer (URL link is below the screen, in case for some reason it won't run for you here):

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jwyteUF43d0

 I highly recommend it!   



Music:  Bryan starts up piano in a week and a half.  I did the opposite of our Spanish class mix-up...I had him practice and get all ready for his piano teacher to arrive on Tuesday...only to discover, after waiting for her for 1/2 an hour, that he wasn't supposed to begin this week!!! 



Homekeeping/Family All the Christmas decor is put away; no particular homekeeping going on this week.  I'm pretty tired from the post-op routines for Nathan!  (I can't just put him to bed at night and go to sleep...have to monitor blood sugars, and dole out pain meds).  So I'm giving myself a break from ANY projects around the house...other than my blogs.  I had done all the laundry before Nathan's surgery, so that was really the only big thing that needed doing.    

 

I pray that next week Nathan will be quickly recovering, and that we will have made some progress in school!  We'll see you then. 



May God Bless you this coming week!  Let me know you were here, and be sure to visit Carol at Three Little Ladies!

 

January 9, 2010

What Is It About Suburban Life That Drains Me?

(This is not my neighborhood...fyi!)
So, here it is, one week into the New Year.  We've had a busy one...with Nathan getting his wisdom teeth out, and all that that has entailed for me as I've watched over his recovery.  I am tired...but that's from lack of uninterrupted sleep since the surgery (necessary nighttime blood sugar checks, pain medicine offerings, etc).  Lord willing, in about a week, he'll be eating normally again, and we can get back to our regular routine...including sleeping through the night! 


But even when that happens, I know that I will still be weary.  Not from a lack of sleep...but from a lack of peace.  There is something about living in the busy suburbs that gets us all.  I watch the moms out here, and I can see it.  I'm not alone!  Not that living in the country and/or homesteading is easy!  I know that it is the opposite--it's hard work, and plenty of it.  Yet I sense that there is a satisfaction felt at the end of this hard work, a sense of good accomplishment in producing something that will be used, in working to grow something that will be eaten, in putting up food that will feed one's family through the winter, in hand-crafting something that will be worn, in building a structure that will keep an animal sheltered.  Sure, we can make crafts, we can garden, we can make homemade applesauce and jelly, we can sew clothes here in the suburbs of Chicago.  I've done all of these things.  But somehow, at least for me, it's different.    


It's a difference that I'm working hard to lay my finger on.  And part of it, I believe, has to do with "scale."  It's the scale of our lives, the scale at which we live our lives.  I first learned about "scale" from Richard and Penny Barker, owners and operators of "The Country School Farm" in Holmes County, Ohio...a place at which our oldest son spent 3 summer weeks.  They write:


"The Country School Farm Summer Camp is in Holmes County, Ohio, where today’s Amish live much as they did a century ago.
...Home to the world’s largest Amish settlement, the area supports a vigorous community of small, tidy, family farms. And, while the Barkers are not Amish, they enjoy many benefits from living among them. The neighbors adhere to a set of principles that inadvertently result in a society that is "people scaled." The assumptions of life are clear and relevant to everyone. People know what is coming next and, because of this, growing up is relatively stress free. Everyone is accepted for his or her own strengths and weaknesses. No one feels left out. The Amish live among people they can trust. Crime is almost nonexistent. Cradle-to-grave security is for most a reality. Sacrifices, perceived as germane to their way of life, mean that few join them voluntarily. Yet, living near them, we take positive lessons that influence us all."


Life here is so big...it's so fast...there's so much stuff and so many things that we do almost every day away from the home...and we're homeschoolers!...it's like a bunch of those spinning plates on sticks, and you have to run from stick to stick just to keep the plates spinning...and then more plates seem to appear to increase the load!  For many years, I was a great plate-spinner.  My plates were all very nice...very worth having, very worth spinning, at least I thought they were. 


But something changed.  Maybe I'm just getting too old for all of this.  I don't think that's it, though.  I think it's my heart that has changed, what I value that has changed as I've gotten older. 


Are you a suburbanite who has any idea what I'm trying to say?  Or are you a homesteader out in the country, who thinks it's time to read someone else's blog?!!  In either case, I'll stop "waxing philosophical" for now.  I'm onto something...which is good!  This blog is titled, "Serenity in the Suburbs."  I'm back on my mission to find it...not my blog, but the Serenity which I so crave out here in the midst of the craziness of this place I call home.  It begins, of course, with knowing Christ, and HIS peace.  That, I have.  I'm talking about peace in my home not being crowded out by the cares of the world that can be unique to living in the environment in which I live. 

OK, enough...on to action!  It's time to start giving a name to each and every spinning plate.  Identify it, and find out why I'm expending energy to keep it spinning...and if it's worth it.  It's likely that you might just have a plate or two you could let drop, and then sweep it up and throw it out!  Let me know what you think!


January 8, 2010

"It's Futile" ~ A Devotional from Nancy Campbell of "Above Rubies"





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I wanted to share this devotional from Nancy Campbell of Above Rubies.  These come to me in weekly emails, and there is an address at the end if you'd like to sign up to receive her emails, as well.  Be blessed!


IT'S FUTILE

1 Samuel 12:20-21 NASB, "Do not turn aside from following the Lord, but serve the Lord with all your heart. You must not turn aside, for then you would go after futile things which cannot profit or deliver, because they are futile."



How true it is that when we turn away from the Lord, we tend to follow after futile things. When we keep close to the Lord, through prayer and guidance of His Word, He keeps our hearts in the right place and leads us into His truth. When we turn aside to our own ways, we have nothing to deter us from walking after vain things and running into deception.



Romans 1:18-28 tells us that when people turn aside from God and focus all their attention on themselves, worshipping "the creature more than the Creator", they become "futile in their speculations" and God gives them over to a "reprobate mind" which is a mind that is void of all judgment and understanding.



We gain more understanding of the word "futile" (tohu in the Hebrew) by looking at other passages where it is used. We find that it also means...



Wasteful. (Deuteronomy 32:10) To go a different way than God has planned for us is to waste our lives. I have always thought that the saddest thing anyone can do is to go through life doing their own thing and going their own way. They miss out on the destiny that God has planned for them before the foundation of the world. That's a wasted life.



Nothingness. Job 16:18 says, "The paths of their way are turned aside: they go to nothing and perish." There is only nothingness at the end of a life that is spent on itself. Luke 12:8-21 reveals the nothingness at the end for the one "who lays up treasure for himself, and is not rich towards God."



A Wilderness experience. (Deuteronomy 32:10 and Job 12:24) To turn aside from God's ways is always a wilderness experience.



Confusion. (Isaiah 41:29) We live in a society that is deceived and deluded. Because we are engulfed by humanist thinking--in the media, the education system and the mindset of the majority around is, it can seem normal to us. Unless we keep close to the Lord and live in His word, we can also be deceived and confused without knowing it.



Vanity. (Isaiah 40:17; 23; 44:9; 59:4) It is a vain thing to pursue our own way. It has no eternal reward.



Empty. The Jerusalem and CJB translate tohu as empty. Many people try to fill their lives with pleasure, satisfaction and material possessions. They fill their homes with stuff--TVs, beautiful décor and every new thing that is advertised. And yet their homes are empty of people--empty of babies and children, the true riches that we can take into eternity with us.



I think of God's words about Israel when they walked in their own ways, "Israel is an empty vine, he brings forth fruit unto himself." (Hosea 10:1) When we focus on ourselves and our own aspirations, we are empty. We have nothing to give to anyone else. We have nothing to take into eternity.



The word empty in this Scripture is baqaq and means "to empty, to depopulate." Isn't that interesting? This is what has been happening in the church over the last few decades. As people have turned away from God's truths to fill their lives with the pleasures of this world, they have depopulated the church. Thousands and thousands of godly children who God intended to come forth to bring God's light and salvation into the world are not here. Not only have we depopulated the church, but we have depopulated the land. In turning from God's ways, we have become empty.



Other translations use the words useless (MLB), worthless (NLT) and false (Knox).



May God help us from wasting our lives on our own pursuits.

Love from NANCY CAMPBELL, ABOVE RUBIES



PRAYER:

"Oh God, please keep me on your narrow way. I don't want to waste my life. Amen."



AFFIRMATION:

Not my way, but God's way.



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Today...

This is only a quick post, mostly to put up these pictures of our lovely snowfall which happened yesterday and continued overnight.  Bryan, once again, is my cheerful shoveler!  This, btw, is his SECOND ROUND of shoveling!  He cleared about 3 to 4 inches off the driveway yesterday afternoon during a lull in the storm! 



My 9.5 year old yellow lab, Sunny, loves the snow! 

She runs through it scooping up mouthfuls of the cold, refreshing fluff...


Nathan would usually help shovel, but he's still recovering from his wisdom teeth out 2 days ago. 

My sister was visiting from California, and brought him the saber-toothed toy...

 

Have a blessed day!

~Lori



January 7, 2010

TTAT ~ Wisdom Teeth, and Getting Ready to Let Go

"Got teens? You lucky dogs. 

Spend time with them; enjoy them; listen to them; and love them. 

They are the most incredible people, these emerging adults,

and they can become the best friends you'll ever have."

~Diana Waring, Reaping the Harvest. The Bounty of Abundant-Life Homeschooling~





Thank you to those of you who were praying for Nathan today...he had all 4 wisdom teeth out this afternoon.  None were impacted yet, but they would be in a year, so they said to get them out early.  We did that with Bryan a year ago.  Nathan is a diabetic (he was diagnosed with it age the tender age of 4), so this period of not being able to eat much is tricky for us.  He uses an insulin pump, which makes it much easier than when we were using injections, but it is still a balancing act.  Please continue to pray for his recovery and that we could keep his blood sugars stable until he can eat better.  Thank you so much!  BTW...he is just a delightful trooper so far!  I am so grateful for his sweet character...I am just a little while away from blogging his story (I did Bryan's first, the "I Wish I Could Go To A Farm" saga), and you can learn more about this terrific guy!  That said, the novacain hasn't worn off yet...it should do so within the hour.  But he's well-medicated, and I'm pretty good at pain med management (I'm an RN, and I believe in pain meds when you need them after surgery!), so we'll stay on top of it, Lord willing!



For the rest of this Thursday TAT post, I wanted to share this bit that I wrote for the Front Porch "Homeschooling Through High School" blog here at HSB.  "My cup runneth over!"  I love my kids!



~Getting Ready to Let Go~



I thought I would briefly share a "shapshot moment" that I had over the Christmas break. 



We went to see the film, "Blind Side," and we just loved it.  If you haven't heard about it, you can view the trailer here.  There was a scene where the family takes their son to college, and the mama bravely hugs him, says "goodbye," and quickly gets into the car so he won't see her fighting back her tears.  Of course, he makes his way to the car and makes her come out to give him "a proper hug," and the tears are allowed to flow.



After the movie, we headed out to the car, and my almost 18 year old son got in the driver's seat to take us home (I sat in the back seat with my 16 year old son, as dad was up front).  As I watched my son driving us home in the dark, I suddenly, without warning, got a mental "glimpse" of the man he is rapidly becoming, and became acutely aware that my time with him at home full time was growing short.  I felt my eyes blur with tears that I rapidly blinked back. 



Although I'm sure the movie played a part in it, I don't quite know why else I suddenly had such a strong, instant emotion come over me.  But when things like that happen, I try to pay attention, and find out what it is that God might be saying to me.



Our children have never really been "ours."  They belong to God.  We all know this, we all know that we are just "stewards" of His creation, that He allows us to raise these children for Him, and then we are to give them back to Him when they are grown.  Every Christian "new mommy" can recite that litany.  But when that little baby in your arms is suddenly (it does happen suddenly, you know!) on the edge of that "time to give him back" cliff, WOW!  There is an awful lot to consider!



The homeschool high school years are so much more than just academics, credits, college entrance exams...though none of those things are unimportant.  But the real benefit of homeschooling through these years is the character development, and the nurturing of these young adults' relationship with their LORD that counts.  What a privilege!  What a joy!  What a blessing!  If you are reading this, and you're considering ending your homeschooling efforts before high school, oh, precious mom or dad...think again!  These final years of growing, of character-shaping, of relationship-building are the sweetest of them all!  Don't let your children go before they're ready!   Homeschooling through high school is not hard.  It's busy, and sometimes a little crazy, yes, but it's not hard.  There are lots of great folks here at HSB and other sites to help walk you through it! 



We have begun our "New Year's slide" back into school.  My 16 year old is getting all of his wisdom teeth out in the morning (Wednesday...please keep us in your prayers, as he is diabetic, so balancing insulin when he can't really eat gets very tricky), so we decided to hold off the full-on start up until next week.  It's been kind of nice, because we've really been able to focus our attention on a lot of worldview and character discussions.  I really love these two guys.  I love to hear what they think...I love to hear how they think (though I don't always get it!)...I love their ideas, their hopes, their dreams, their prayers.  



Give up this time of their lives to the public school system?  Not on your life.  When I give them up, it will be to give them back to the One who gave them to me...for a time.   



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